Nice Strangers

My mom said we should never talk to strangers. They may be  bad people who is going to kidnap us or sell our organs. I even once read that children were kidnapped and brought to foreign countries and were forced to be beggars on the street. No need for me to elaborate on human trafficking..We all know and aware about it. However,labeling all strangers as dangerous and keep well clear are a bit too much. Why I said that? Because my friends were strangers before they become my friends.

I still remember my ex-roommate Shikin one year ago.I never seen her before in my life and I'm about to share the room with a stranger. I cant even understand what shes saying to me and same goes to her about me. However,we survive and change that stranger situation into something wonderful..A friendship for life.

How about Fara?My roommate as well.She was a stranger as well and even worst,I heard all kinds of bad things about her. However,I did not die talking to her but I gain another friend and my life is blooming happily.

There was even a stranger whom I met at the airport where he nicely lend me his handphone to call because I forgot my phone at my friend's car. I wasn't kidnapped..!!!

Truthfully, many more strangers became my friends and my life was blessed with many warm and joyous laugh.It would be a false statement to say all strangers are bad when most of us were strangers before we knew each other. Although we must never let our guard down, we also need to open up a bit and give a hand to friendship. Don't frown to strangers. Don't assume bad things. But be alert as well cuz bad people are good actors and actress. Most importantly, we should know how to differentiate the good and the bad. Anyways, most kidnappers or criminals were someone we knew or close to us.Beware of them as well. So,Earth people. Live wisely and cheerfully..

Having a Child of My Own

Having children of my own is something I used to dream of long ago. I see women with their own baby and something inside me grew warm and a little bit of jealousy. I want a cute baby too. Back in high school i used to be a softball player and I really loved it. So,i made up my mind to have 9 children. Its the number of players for softball team right. I imagine my 9 future children plays softball and I am the umpire and my future hubby would be the coach of our team. It is one of my dreams. 

Now,I'm just 19 going to 20 in 3 months time and my dream is very much still far away for me to reach obviously. I'm still young and still studying and of course single. However,I'm a proud aunty of 8 and will be 9 next month. Of course being the youngest aunty in the family, I am honored to be the 2nd babysitter of my nephews and nieces after my mom. I even become the Godmother for my niece, Arrielle Jullianne.
 

Being a babysitter is an enjoyable tough job. I've been kick,punched,pinched,pushed,jumped at and many more bruises,tears and sweat. However,even when I am at the edge of breaking down into anger, a smile from them melt my heart away. I love my them just too much.
 

Even though having taste the hardship of taking care little children,i never lose hope in having children of my own. It's gonna be a fun loving hard and special chapter in my book of life. So,it's a dream and a dream it must not stay. Though,it would be somewhere in the not-so-near future, I don't mind cause i can wait. In the mean time,I have my adorable sweet and naughty nieces and nephews to deal with and I just never got bored with them.I'm blessed..

Money Money Money

Another day another dollar is the lifelong slogan of most people because money is as good as gold. Some people may be filthy rich but most people are not born with silver spoons in their mouth. Money doesn't grow on trees. We need to have money because money makes end meet and money makes the world go round.

Like we all know, money is like drugs. It makes people addicted to it.When people become addicted to it; their obsession will push them to do simply anything to get hold of some cash. That is why robberies, prostitution, kidnapping and selling organs in black markets are rampant. Usually innocent young children become the victims for such scary activities. They are kidnapped, forced into sex slavery and even killed for their organs. All of these are done in the name of money.

Besides that, people also tend to judge someone by their bank balance. It doesn’t matter how incredibly beautiful you look, if you have empty pockets, you will end up looking like the hunchback from Notre-dame in the eyes of others. Seriously, even if you flash your super killer smile, nobody will want you. Just like a saying I always hear, no money no honey. Let me share with you a story I once read. 

'Bob was a very handsome guy. One day, he found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sickly father died, he decided he needed a woman to enjoy it with. So one evening he went to a singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath away. "I’m not only handsome," he said as he walked up to her, "but my pocket is as worth as my look because in just a week or two my father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million dollars.” Impressed, the woman went home with him that evening. Three days later, she happily became his stepmother.'

There are even cases where wives after all those sweet promises of till death do us apart, leave their husband, though freaking hot but because as poor as a mouse, the love vanish in thin air. Vice versa, if you are rich beyond imagination, you will attract a number of bad people acting nice like the wolves in sheep’s coat. They will seduce you, suck all your possession and will leave you when not a penny is in your hand. I’m not saying that everyone is like that but most definitely everyone is like that.

Most of all, Money matters, Matter the most, in the most important matter of our matrimonial matters: Guys; pay attention; women prefer rich men for marriage

You see, the perfect man is not the perfect man until he is the man with the perfect money .So, to your utter disappointment; it's not good looks or a cracking sense of humor. According to a new study money is what makes a woman's world going. Let me tell you Intelligence is a sure shot way to woo women, but money has no parallel. Large salaries are an obvious attraction here. Self-employed partners are not as appealing as someone with a regular, fixed income.

In-spite of the fact that money matters, yet there are matters where money does not matter.

Money can buy us a house but not a home

Money can buy us a friend but not true friends.

Money can buy us guys or girls but not true love.

Money can buy us a book but not knowledge

Money definitely can buy us anything but not everything.

  

We should not put money as our first priority. Indeed we can work hard to find money but never let it control our life because money is a terrible master but an excellent servant.

When I miss you

In a relationship,there will obviously times when you miss that someone and all you want to do is meet him/her. However,in some cases you can't so how to deal with it..This is what i did..

1)Do a blog.
2)Try new things to fill your free time.
3)read a book
4)cal your friends
5)hang out with your friends
6)spend time with your family..(its not boring or lame)
7)Do things that makes you happy or inspired..

and many more things that you can do..you do not need to hurt yourself by keeping it to your self..Life is precious.Try to explore,make new friends..Love may be our first priority but it doens't hurt to enjoy ourselves when they are far away..They would want us to be happy as well..

What love can't buy..

1) Time to be together.
2)Short distance for long distance relationship.
3)Money for phone calls and sms.
4)The energy to borrow a friend's phone to call loved ones..

When i read what i wrote,it feels not love at all if you can't do the things I listed. If you are in a relationship with problems like this..Move on..or find ways to overcome it.. If you don't then your heart will feel the pain.. Save the tears and make your decision now..

Cause of Abortion

When my mother was pregnant of me, her doctor told her to abort me because I may risk her life.. But my dad angrily said to him ‘who are you? Are you God? Who are you to tell my wife to kill my child?’ So, my mom did not abort me and here I am today,alive,well and cute as ever..

Of course I am here not to tell about me but to share my thoughts on abortion following my own nearly aborted situation if my hero a.k.a my dad haven't prevented it.

So, what is abortion? Abortion is defined as the termination of pregnancy by the removal or expulsion from the uterus of a fetus or embryo prior to viability. It can occur spontaneously which commonly known as miscarriage or it can occur on purpose which we called it as induced.   Abortion occur worldwide with 42 million cases per year which brings about 115 000 cases per day. In Malaysia alone, there is one abortion in every 5 pregnancies.

So what causes abortion to be done by the parents? Don’t they love their gift from God? Well, from my recent research, it shows that 93% of all abortions were due to social reasons. While the other reasons are 6% due to health reason and 1% due to rape or incest. Abortion  for social reasons are because of poverty.  More women abort their pregnancy because they could not afford to raise a child or another child.  In India alone, 13 million abortions take place because abortion is advertised as a method of birth control and a means of guaranteeing greater economic development in families. Another social reason is the mother are too young to have a child. As we all know, lots of teenagers nowadays are involved actively in sex before marriage. Some are as young as 14 years old. So, when they become pregnant, they abort their babies to hide their shame.

Poverty and age are not a good reason for abortion. If you know that you are too poor or  too young to have a child, wear protection during sex. Condom alone has 97% of effectiveness to prevent pregnancy and Happy Brand only cost as low as RM5 for 3 condoms. 

So why waste money for abortion when you can prevent it? Or better, don’t do sex at because that is the best birth control ever.

Health reason can also lead to abortion. 90% of all babies with Down Syndrome are aborted. The parents believes that it is cruel to force a living being to live a life destined for pain and loneliness. Besides that , Pregnant women with cancers has to abort their child so they can do the treatment to save their lives such as chemotherapy. Some also terminate their child because they thought having too many children can effect their health such as prolapsed internal organs. Usually the doctor will advised the mother to abort the child just like what the doctor said to my mom. Health reason may be acceptable for abortion but abortion because the baby is deformed is not acceptable. It shows that their lives, are less worthwhile than the lives of 'normal' people. 

Other reason for abortion is because the pregnancy happened because they were raped. So they do not want the baby of the person who raped them. They hated the baby just like they hated the raper. So they abort the baby to let go their anger. However this act is not good. It is not the child’s fault. The baby did not ask to be conceive in such a way. I believe that all the unborn baby wish to be conceive with love but what can they do if they are conceive through force. Learn to forgive and forget. God will eventually punish those who do wrong.

In conclusion, Everyone has the rights to be born into this world.Abortion may be legal in some ways such as in Malaysia, abortion is Legal during 1st trimester only if to protect the women’s life, physical health and mental health. However abortion is still murder and under whatsoever circumstances should not be done. So, if you know you are sick,or unable to have a child then prevent it. So that you wont have to do abortion. The next time you are thinking of abortion,remember the baby that you carrying may be the next Einstein or the next Tom Cruise or whoever great people that you can think of. Please,don't do abortion.