When my mother was pregnant of me, her doctor told her to
abort me because I may risk her life.. But my dad angrily said to him ‘who are you?
Are you God? Who are you to tell my wife to kill my child?’ So, my mom did not
abort me and here I am today,alive,well and cute as ever..
Of course I am here not to tell about me but to share my thoughts on abortion following my own nearly aborted situation if my hero a.k.a my dad haven't prevented it.
So, what is abortion? Abortion is defined as the termination of
pregnancy by the removal or expulsion from the uterus of a fetus or embryo
prior to viability. It can occur spontaneously which commonly known as
miscarriage or it can occur on purpose which we called it as induced. Abortion occur worldwide with 42 million
cases per year which brings about 115 000 cases per day. In Malaysia alone,
there is one abortion in every 5 pregnancies.
So what causes abortion to be
done by the parents? Don’t they love their gift from God? Well, from my recent
research, it shows that 93% of all abortions were due to social reasons. While
the other reasons are 6% due to health reason and 1% due to rape or incest. Abortion for social reasons are because of poverty. More women abort their pregnancy because they
could not afford to raise a child or another child. In India alone, 13 million abortions take
place because abortion is advertised as a method of birth control and a means
of guaranteeing greater economic development in families. Another social reason
is the mother are too young to have a child. As we all know, lots of teenagers
nowadays are involved actively in sex before marriage. Some are as young as 14
years old. So, when they become pregnant, they abort their babies to hide their
shame.
Poverty and age are not a good reason for abortion. If you know that you
are too poor or too young to have a child,
wear protection during sex. Condom alone has 97% of effectiveness to prevent
pregnancy and Happy Brand only cost as low as RM5 for 3 condoms.
So why waste
money for abortion when you can prevent it? Or better, don’t do sex at because
that is the best birth control ever.
Health reason can also lead to abortion. 90% of all babies with Down Syndrome are aborted. The parents believes that it is cruel to force a living being to live a life destined for pain and loneliness. Besides that , Pregnant women with cancers has to abort their child so they can do the treatment to save their lives such as chemotherapy. Some also terminate their child because they thought having too many children can effect their health such as prolapsed internal organs. Usually the doctor will advised the mother to abort the child just like what the doctor said to my mom. Health reason may be acceptable for abortion but abortion because the baby is deformed is not acceptable. It shows that their lives, are less worthwhile than the lives of 'normal' people.
Other reason for abortion is because the pregnancy happened
because they were raped. So they do not want the baby of the person who raped
them. They hated the baby just like they hated the raper. So they abort the
baby to let go their anger. However this act is not good. It is not the
child’s fault. The baby did not ask to be conceive in such a way. I believe
that all the unborn baby wish to be conceive with love but what can they do if
they are conceive through force. Learn to forgive and forget. God will
eventually punish those who do wrong.
In conclusion, Everyone has the rights to be born into this
world.Abortion may be legal in some ways such as in Malaysia, abortion is Legal
during 1st trimester only if to protect the women’s life, physical health and
mental health. However abortion is still murder and under whatsoever
circumstances should not be done. So, if you know you are sick,or unable to
have a child then prevent it. So that you wont have to do abortion. The next time you are thinking of abortion,remember the baby that you carrying may be the next Einstein or the next Tom Cruise or whoever great people that you can think of. Please,don't do abortion.
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